Where to start?! The media is, well the media. They are a business.  They feature stories that will boost ratings.  They use shock value  to stir up attention and in turn receive more viewers.

So why we are surprised by  both the Good Morning America and the  Discovery Health reports on Unschooling?  They are typical examples of  biased reporting.  Both were short segments filled more with shock value than facts and true glimpses into real unschooling.

Mainstream America just doesn’t get Unschooling. They aren’t going to.  For heavens sake only about 25% of American adults have a face book account. I thought everybody was on face book! So imagine how the majority of the world could possibly understand Unschooling?  Especially with the shows that Discovery Health and Good Morning America put out. Yet, it is so easy for me to forget that we are radical. It is so easy for me to forget that my family is so different than almost everybody else.

Partly because I don’t reflect the mainstream and haven’t for so long.  I have my own  fairly large community that I identify with. I belong to a food co-op and rarely shop at Kroger and I love my public radio station where they don’t play anything you have ever heard of. —–That’s weird…… Yeah, I guess.  I recycle, compost, use cloth napkins, shop at the thrift store and line dry my clothes—-Oh, your one of those hippies!….. OK.  My kids don’t go school—-Oh, you homeschool? Will you always do that? Do they socialize with other kids? ……No,we Unschool—— Huh?????? Like those crazy people on TV? Did you see that, they let their kids eat donuts for breakfast—– That is main steam media for you!

I don’t sit round and think about how different we are. We just live. We aren’t purposeful in every move we make. We aren’t living for “the unschooling movement.” We don’t look different. We don’t walk or talk differently. (well maybe a little differently   ) Our daily life is pretty uneventful to the outside world. We get up and go about our day just like everyone else. Only we have learned a little secret that seems so unfathomable to the rest of the world.    Choice

We all have them. Really we do have  choices in everything we do. Yes, some choices make life harder than others but  we have choices in life. And as Unschoolers we have made many, many unpopular choices.

Kids don’t have to go to school–gasp! They don’t have to get up at a certain time of day to be productive—gasp! They don’t even have to be told to learn!  No, really, it’s just automatic. Adults may think they have control over what kids are leaning but kids and adults everywhere are learning ALL THE TIME!

I googled learning and Wikipedia gave me this: (from a very mainstream source even!)

Learning is a process you do, not a process that is done to you. Traditional education focuses on teaching, not learning. It incorrectly assumes that for every ounce of teaching there is an ounce of learning by those who are taught. However, most of what we learn before, during, and after attending schools is learned without it being taught to us. A child learns such fundamental things as how to walk, talk, eat, dress, and so on without being taught these things. Adults learn most of what they use at work or at leisure while at work or leisure. Most of what is taught in classroom settings is forgotten, and much or what is remembered is irrelevant

1. ^ Russell L. Ackoff and Daniel Greenberg (2008), Turning Learning Right Side Up: Putting Education Back on Track (pdf) HTML. Retrieved February 18, 2010.
2. ^ Greenberg, H. (1987), “The Art of Doing Nothing,” The Sudbury Valley School Experience. Retrieved February 18, 2010.
3. ^ Mitra, S. (2007) Sugata Mitra shows how kids teach themselves (video – 20:59). Minimally Invasive Education, Retrieved February 18, 2010.

These choices we have made are hard. And Unschooling is a journey of sorts. The vast majority of unschoolers did not wake up one day and decide to make all of these radical choices in one day. But it is easy to forget that.

Beginning with following your heart and letting go of what other people think. It’s your life –who care’s what other people think.  Really–let that go and be the real you. We only have one this one life to live. Live it the way you want to.

Then giving up  the ” should do’s”  and the  “have to’s”.   Really question why you are doing things. Do you really want to? Or are you just doing them because you should do them? What will really happen if you don’t do them? Can you live with that result? Can you make a different choice to get the end result you want?  Then make your decision based on that. It  is a process.  These choices we have made seem so normal and automatic to us now that sometimes we forget how the other 99% of the world is living.  There really are so few have to’s in our lives but we assume that we must do way too many of them. Don’t follow blindly. I want to make my life just what I want it to be. And fill it with what I want. You can to. You have a choice.

So to the outside world our life may seem uneventful but really it’s just the opposite. Really we are choosing to exercise our choices. We aren’t living lives full of have to’s. We are living fully everyday. Not just on the weekends or when we go on vacation. Not just when we have time. And you can too. You have a choice–to put your kids in school or homeschool or really trust yourself and  live your one life freely and Unschool.

Did you ever wonder what those little watercolor cakes are made of? Well I am sure the factory makes them out of something different than these but I must say I was very impressed with the way these turned out. The colors are so bright and beautiful—and custom designed!

We doubled this recipe and it made a ton. You definitely need shallow little containers–I happened to have some empty paint trays that I picked up at a recycling shop and some empty film canisters which are a little too deep but worked OK-just took longer to dry.

Mix the following together:

3 Tablespoons baking soda

3 Tablespoons corn starch

3 Tablespoons white vinegar

1 1/2 teaspoons light corn syrup

Pour into your containers —bottle caps, pill boxes, any tiny, shallow container will do.

Add food coloring. We used both neon and regular colors of food coloring

Be sure to mix or shake well

Now let the cakes dry—this takes a while. We let ours sit for about 30 hours.

But look—–totally worth the wait!

This project from Family Fun takes a little bit of time so plan ahead!

T-shirts were buy one get one free the day I was at the store so instead of trying my luck at the thrift store I bought new shirts for this project. But they didn’t have white shirts in my kids sizes so I went with black and a sparkly blue fabric paint. I like the way it tuned out but you can use whatever color shirts or paint you choose.

You will need

black marker, paper,cardboard,  newspaper, cotton t shirt, tacky glue, sponge brush, fabric paint

1. Use a black marker to draw a thick lined snowflake template on the paper or download one at Family Fun

2. Place template over the cardboard and slip both inside shirt. You should be able to see the template through the shirt. Because we used a dark shirt we just used the glue tip and drew ours free hand using the template as a reference.

3. Using a thin line of tacky glue-about 1/4 inch wide-trace your snowflake design. Let it dry for 10 mins then fill in any gaps with additionl glue. Let the glue dry completely until it is transparent. We left ours overnight

4. Dip the sponge brush in the fabric paint and dab around the snowflake, completely covering the entire area. Use less paint towards the outer edge. Let the paint dry overnight.

5. Soak the tee in warm water for about 10 mins to soften the glue. Peel off the glue and let the shirt dry. Follow package directions to set the paint.

This is sort of how this project felt…crazy.

First off  you will need some flat leaves for this project. Next, you will need a tablecloth to decorate. A quick trip to my local thrift shop got me a gold tablecloth-perfect!  You will also need fabric paint. So,  a hopeful run down the one craft aisle at my grocery to find fabric paint and save me a trip to the craft store,  revealed fluorescent colors. Boo!! But then out of the corner of my eye, on the clearance rack, I spied the perfect Fall colors of permanent acrylic paint. Score again! I love when things are easy and work out that way! It doesn’t usually happen, so I was indeed happy with my lucky finds!

So I cleared the way in my kitchen to spread the table cloth on the floor. My kitchen is small and my floor isn’t spic and span-eww- and the tablecloth took up all the available floor space. That meant we were constantly walking all over the tablecloth–eww again-it also meant the material kept getting wrinkled up. I begin to get annoyed.

OK-next I spread out some newspaper and paper plates with the paint, leaves and brushes.

You will also need more newspaper and a rolling pin for this project.

Paint the underside of the leaf—the veins will give you a better print.

Then carefully put the leaf, paint side down, on the tablecloth and cover it with wax paper or a sheet of newspaper. Carefully so that the paint that is all over your fingers doesn’t get all over the tablecloth.  Then again-carefully, so that the leaf doesn’t slide around, roll over the top of the newspaper with your rolling pin a couple of times.

Remove the newspaper and then carefully peel your leaf back up-so that you don’t just drop it back down creating paint splots on the tablecloth. And watch were you throw your cover piece of paper-it has wet paint on it. Are you feeling my blood pressure rising??

Can you see that I was a little too invested in the product of this project!!! Part of it was this was a little messy for my kitchen floor and tables. Water colors or tempra are one thing but permanent acrylics are another. As Ginger walked over the wet paint back onto the wood floors and I am yelling, “Don’t step in the paint, wipe your hands off, don’t get that paint on my rolling pin, you’re wrinkling the tablecloth” etc… etc….  But surprisingly-they endured my fussiness  and the leaf prints came out great. We plan on using this on  our Thanksgiving table.

So the moral of this story is…if your looking to make this a really perfect looking tablecloth…do it your self. If your looking for a fun project for your kids…protect all surfaces and  shut your mouth. Allowing the kids to make it without being over supervised (and probably taking most of the fun out of it)!! It will look great either way! Another lesson learned!

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Purple is this weeks Unplugged Theme. I love the color purple! Now–but not always! Back when my cousin, Tracy, and I were young we used to hate purple because Donnie Osmond’s socks were purple. Hmmm, funny how such a thing could turn me off to the color purple. Well, no more.

First, I raided every junk drawer, work bench  and recycling bin to find small but interesting objects. I found lids, broken jewelry, pen and marker caps, marbles, key chains, clothes pins, sea shells, pinecones, washers and broken parts. I filled a tubby with these treasures and fired up the hot glue gun. I had each of the girls pick something out of the recycling to use as their mounting board for there treasures. Ginger picked a plastic tray and Molly an egg carton.

Molly was able to use the hot glue herself but Ginger needed some help.

After they glued everything down, out came the purple paint.

Ginger was very selective of what she actually painted.

Molly covered hers. I really like trying to figure out what each of the tiny treasures are when they are covered in paint!

The Unplugged Theme of OCEAN this week comes at a perfect time. In about a month we will be spending some time at the ocean. We have been reading  ocean books and learning all we can about the sea.  I love the art work in so many children’s books. Two artists I really like are Leo Lionni and Eric Carle. THE ART OF ERIC CARLE and the book ARTIST TO ARTIST 23 major illustrators talk to children about their art, are excellent books that talk about and/or show the artists at work.

Another  book we read was SWIMMY by Leo Lionni. We looked closely at the pictures and tried to figure out how Lionni made them. Then tried out some of our ideas in our own ocean pictures.

Looks like doilies!

Molly also used bubble wrap and “paintbrush hair” to add some texture to her work. She also made a fish stencil so that all of her fish would look alike.

Inevitably the painting turned into to finger paint and 5 year olds have their own ideas. Ginger started her painting by cutting out a red fish shape, gluing it down and calling it “swimmy.” The next time I looked their were sunshines and and words and hearts in her ocean. Taking a deep breath I had to remember it’s the process not the product that’s important!!

This was the first time we used acrylic paints. Molly really liked the coverage and control she felt with these as well as the clean finish.

Picture books are a great jumping off point for so many activities. I have a few other ideas to share soon.

This is a super easy, super cheap, super messy way to temporarily color your hair!

We used about 3 to 5 squirts of hair conditioner to 3 packets of the same flavor Kool aid. DO NOT use it with sugar, just the flavor packet. Kool Aid stains everything …so be careful!

You may need to add a bit of water. You don’t want it to drip off of your hair but it needs to be spreadable. Remember to use old or disposable cups as this will stain whatever you use. We used paint brushes to put it on our hair.

Seperate hair into sections and paint some of the Kool Aid color on to hair. Avoiding scalp and skin.

Next we wrapped the colored hair in foil to keep it from staining anything else.

It is key to leave it in your hair as long as you can…the longer the better. So we slept in ours. It does get a little itchy!

Then we rinsed it out really well and gently washed our hair.

Voila…strawberry, black cherry, cherry and blue raspberry hair color!!!

It has been almost a week since we colored our hair and since the girls went swimming a few times theirs has faded some but mine is still pretty bright. We all have really light hair so the color took well. If your hair is more brown it won’t be as dark as ours. It was only supposed to last about a week…hmmm. I may have pink hair for a little longer than expected!