I Am An Unschooling Geek
Taken from Enjoy Life Unschooling’s April blog carnival theme
This months theme is “To Open”.
- The name April is of Latin origin, and its meaning is “to open”.
- What does that mean to you?
- What doors do Radical Unschooling open?
- How have you “opened” since discovering unschooling?
Have fun, get messy, make mistakes 
What does open mean to me? To be ready to experience things that come my way. To let go of preconceived ideas and notions of things or the way things “should be.” Not letting fear run my life. This is something I have to work on everyday. Acceptance of things the way they are. This is hard for me because I like to be in control. It is comforting for me. In some ways this is a really good trait. I am organized and love taking care of details. But I can go overboard too. Yet, the more I let go and open myself up the easier it is becoming to really live in the moment and trust that things will work out the way they are meant to. I don’t have to try to control everything to go my way. What a relief!
What doors do Radical Unschooling open for me? Most of my control is just an illusion but still a comforting one. So I get how hard the idea of unschooling is for some people. Just the idea of letting go of all that control you think you have is really hard. But when I do let go, little by little it becomes easier to free myself of so much baggage. I can really see and feel who I really am. Not who I was” supposed to be” or how my neighbors see me or who friends think I am. But who I was meant to be. Learning to let go of the seeming control I had over my kids has been huge! Fighting over arbitrary rules because I thought that they were necessary. Doing things just because everyone else was and what would they think if we didn’t?! How awesome that my kids can have this true love and acceptance now. They don’t have to wait until they are adults to lose all kinds of crap; assumptions and expectations that were put upon them just to eventually find themselves—the selves they were born to be. They were born to be just who they are supposed to be until we try to change them to fit a mold to make things run seemingly smoother. I say seemingly because now I know how much easier an unschooling life is. How much easier it is to live life on our terms everyday instead of the school systems way or our parents way or the mainstream way. Our life is not an illusion. It is everyday real!
How have I opened since discovering unschooling? Unschooling has opened this path for me. The real trust that you have to find and develop to unschool has opened my family up to so many possibilities. To choices I never knew were there. We really are free to make decisions, not coerced or biased decisions but what we really want. And we can do that because we are open to support and trust each other. And now to show just what an unschooling geek that I am: I relate everything in my life to unschooling. It is so weird how I find evidence everyday, multiple times, that shows me just how right and perfect this unschooling path is. I hear a story on the radio or I read something, I see someone loving what they are doing. All things that don’t have anything to do with unschooling per say–but somehow I can find a link. Just another way unschooling has opened me up to hearing and seeing more and more just how natural unschooling really is—ok I’ll stop now! 
(I told you I was a geek)
I tried to fix the funny spacing–(that isn’t there on purpose)–but the spaces aren’t on my draft-sorry.